Don't just go along with something—make sure you're excited about it. Talking about sex with a new partner is a must. Whether it's your first or fiftieth time having sex, the worst thing you can do is go into it with the assumption that you know everything about what your partner wants. Whether you've slept with 50 people or zero, that's your business. Lube is an absolute must-have more on that later , but if that doesn't help get things running smoothly, you should consult your doctor or a gynecologist to see if you may have a condition called vaginismus , which makes it really hard for anything to enter the vagina. Yes, some people do bleed the first time , and that bleeding is usually caused by the stretching of your hymen —a thin, delicate piece of tissue located just a couple inches inside the vagina. Tammelleo adds that "hundreds of women" have told her that, when they had penetrative sex for the first time, it felt like their partner was "hitting a brick wall. Comfort with a new partner often takes time and communication, and that goes for both men and women.
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